AGING WELL

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Hello! I'm Dr.Vanessa Schaeffer.

I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in working with older adults and the people who love and care for them.

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"Whatever we are, whatever we make of our selves, is all we will ever have - and that, in its profound simplicity, is the meaning of life."

-Philip Appleman

The Value of Each and Every Day: Finding Meaning and Purpose as We Age

Dear friends, 

As we age, we gain a unique perspective on the passage of time. The days can  seem to go by faster, and yet, every moment carries a weight that was perhaps  less noticeable in our younger years. It’s easy to overlook the value of today  when we’re focused on tomorrow or dwelling on the past. But each day, no  matter how ordinary it may seem, holds an opportunity for meaning, growth,  and purpose. 

Why Today Matters 

Sometimes, we may feel that the best days are behind us, or that the future is  too uncertain to bring joy. But the truth is, the present moment is all we ever  truly have. Each day offers the chance to reconnect with ourselves, our loved  ones, and the world around us. Whether it’s through a phone call with an old friend, a peaceful walk in nature, or simply savoring a quiet morning cup of  coffee, today is a gift. 

Embracing the present can help us cultivate a sense of gratitude for the simple  things that bring us joy. As we grow older, our priorities shift, and we often  find that the things we used to chase—success, status, or material posses sions—matter less than the experiences and connections we’ve accumulated.  Cherishing these moments is what gives life its richness. 

The Power of Meaning and Purpose 

Having a sense of meaning and purpose in life is important at every stage, but  it can be especially powerful as we age. Research has shown that older adults  who feel a strong sense of purpose tend to be healthier and happier. Whether  it’s nurturing relationships, pursuing hobbies, volunteering, or continuing to learn, purpose gives us a reason to wake up in the morning with energy and  intention. 

Meaning doesn’t have to be grand. It can be found in small, everyday activi ties—taking care of a garden, spending time with grandchildren, or sharing  your wisdom and experience with others. The key is recognizing that your life  still holds value, and that you have something to offer, no matter your age or  circumstances. 

How to Find Purpose in Your Daily Life 

If you’re unsure how to reconnect with a sense of purpose, here are a few ideas: 

Set Small Goals: Purpose doesn’t have to be tied to big achievements. Set daily  or weekly goals—whether it’s finishing a book, mastering a new recipe, or  simply taking a walk. 

Stay Connected

Relationships are often our greatest source of meaning.  Reach out to loved ones regularly, and consider joining groups or clubs that  share your interests. 

Give Back

Volunteering can be a wonderful way to add purpose to your life.  Helping others, whether through formal volunteering or simply being there  for a friend, can fill your days with a deep sense of fulfillment. 

Embrace Lifelong Learning

There’s always something new to learn. Take up a  hobby you’ve always been curious about, or read about a subject that interests  you. Learning keeps our minds active and opens up new avenues for meaning. 

Practice Gratitude

Take time each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful  for. It could be as simple as the warmth of the sun, the sound of birds, or a  smile from a neighbor. Gratitude helps us appreciate the present moment. 

Closing Thoughts 

Each day is an opportunity to live fully and with intention. As older adults,  you have a wealth of experience, wisdom, and insight that can continue to  shape your life and those around you. By embracing the value of each moment  and seeking out meaning and purpose in your daily life, you can enhance your  well-being and leave a lasting impact on the world. 

Thank you for sharing this journey with me, and may today—and every  day—be filled with joy, purpose, and peace.