My Services
Aging Consultation
An experienced outside perspective on aging-related decisions, family concerns, and transitions — for adult children, spouses, and older adults themselves.
You don’t need to be in crisis to need a good plan.
What is an aging consultation?
A focused conversation with a psychologist who specializes in aging. We look at what is happening — a decision, a concern, a transition — identify the most important issues, and develop practical next steps. Think of it less like a medical checkup and more like a life checkup: how is the home working? Transportation? Social connection? Finances and health-care decision making? Family communication? What does independence mean to this person?
Who is it for?
Adult children and family members trying to help someone they love; spouses navigating a partner's changes; and older adults thinking about their own aging. You do not need a diagnosis, a crisis, or even a specific problem — planning ahead is one of the best reasons to consult.
What kinds of questions can we discuss?
Whether what you are seeing is typical aging or something that deserves evaluation. Whether an aging parent needs more help — and how to talk about it. Driving, living arrangements, and aging in place. Sibling disagreements about a parent's care. Retirement, purpose, and what you want the next stage of life to look like. If it touches aging, it belongs here.
Can adult children consult without the parent?
Yes. Many consultations are with family members only. You can think through what you are seeing and what to do next without your parent participating — and without anyone being labeled a patient.
Can spouses consult?
Yes. A spouse is often the first to notice changes and the one carrying the most day-to-day weight. Consultation can help you sort out what is happening and what support would actually help.
Can someone consult about their own aging?
Absolutely — and I wish more people did. Consultation is a place to look at what is changing, what is working, what you want to protect, and how to prepare well for older adulthood on your own terms.
Is this psychotherapy?
No. Consultation is not therapy and does not involve diagnosis or treatment. It is expert guidance for thinking through aging-related questions and decisions. If therapy would genuinely help, I will say so — and help you figure out the right next step.
What happens during a consultation?
We meet by secure video. You describe the situation; I ask questions to understand what matters most; and together we organize the picture — what is urgent, what can wait, what deserves attention first. Consultations are practical and focused.
What do I leave with?
Clarity and a plan: the most important issues named, practical next steps, and — where useful — direction toward the right resources or evaluations. Most families say the biggest relief is simply knowing what deserves attention first.
How do I schedule?
Reach out through the contact page and briefly describe your situation. The practice is telehealth-based, so consultations are available wherever I am able to serve you.