AGING WELL

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Hello! I'm Dr.Vanessa Schaeffer.

I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in working with older adults and the people who love and care for them.

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"Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been."

-David Bowie

The Beautiful Contradictions of Aging

Aging is not a straight line.
It’s not a clean process or a tidy story.It’s messy and marvelous.
Exquisite and excruciating.
Scary and scintillating.
Fabulous and frustrating.
A dance between intimacy and isolation.Some days feel like a celebration. Others, like survival.But always, it asks something brave of us.
To show up.
To feel it all.
To keep learning, keep laughing, keep loving—even amidst our lamenting.Aging is not about perfection. It’s about presence.
The kind of presence that sees beauty in the wrinkles and wisdom in the hard-won truths.The kind that can hold two truths at once:
You can grieve what’s gone and cherish what’s still unfolding.
You can miss who you were and be amazed by who you’re now becoming.This chapter of life takes balance and bravery.
It takes curiosity. Compassion. And sometimes, a good pair of walking shoes.Let yourself be all of it.Because aging isn’t a decline—it’s a deepening.
And it’s yours to live fully.